Combating the Flick Return

Hi,

I am more of offensive player, so when I see a ball high enough to hit, I do it. Recently, when one of my opponents kept returning with a short chop to my forehand,I flicked it using an open racket angle.But when I returned to my home,I realized that someday, someone could also return to me a short chop. My real question is, when I return the ball with a short chop, and my opponent returns it with a flick, what type of return would I get, a backspin one,a topspin one or a normal ball?

Also, the same player sometimes returns the ball with a very high deep chop.When I try to smash it, it goes to the net and when I smash the same with an open racket angle, the ball goes outside the table. What should I do?If possible, please answer with a video.

Thanks in advance!